Love in such a way that it frees the other! by Sangeeta Handa
Because ... Love is freeing indeed!
Marriages can be stifling! Expectations and demands make life ugly and the person depressive. And the one on whom it is placed - imprisoned! Marriage is an institu
Because ... Love is freeing indeed!
Marriages can be stifling! Expectations and demands make life ugly and the person depressive. And the one on whom it is placed - imprisoned! Marriage is an institution and condition created and imposed by humanity. Marriages are not created by the Creator. Reincarnation is; Karma is; but not marriage! Fidelity, on earth, is a vow, not sacred but, that which can be broken through sheer thought! And is broken rather immediately, callously, insensitively and, infallibly! Man, by nature, abhors limitation yet, he enforces it. And then laments in it! And rises thereafter like a phoenix, upon the ashes of its decision, and flies to explore other horizons. Justifying to himself, and to those who question his morality, that his decision to marry was necessary for making children. The poor wife then fades into invisibility and irrelevance! And. She allows it!
What if society had never caused an institution such as marriage to be anchored, how would life then have been? Well, one thing is for sure - there would have naught been the word 'bastard'! And, 90% of mans suffering would ne'er have been heard of! And. So much karma would have been non-existent! That many re-incarnations would have been obliterated as well! The Wheel of Karmic Re-incarnations would have stumbled and grounded into an abrupt halt. The Game would indeed have ended long ago! But we fools, the hardy boys, had to go and stump our own destiny! We...coined an Institution called 'marriage'! And made it a necessity, endorsed by the Vatican, the Temples, the Mosques, and all their relevant holy scriptures. Religion was the final card that sanctified marriage a mandatory holy morality! Marriage became a Law!
Love that stems from need is a love that arises from the lower 3 chakras. But love that streams from the 7th chakra, the crown, is love non-requital and un-conditioned, and all-inclusive. The Crown Chakra is energized and embraced by the Second Ray - the golden Ray of Love and Light. That is why we were originally designed to love from the highest chakra, and its corresponding 2nd Ray!
We were made from the highest geometry of the holographic design that expected humanity, as a spiritually advanced race, different from all other forms of creation on earth through its sheer and exclusive potential of spiritual intelligence, to love from the highest chakra; to feel from its Singular Eye of non-duality; to speak from the chakra corresponding to the Will of God (Throat Chakra, center of the science of the spoken word that is activated by the 1st Ray) and nothing less in power, and to think from the purity and positivity of the Heart Chakra. The original races of Lemuria and Atlantis did just that! And our forefathers, the Egyptian Civilization (of which we are a descent) was seeded from this wisdom and nurtured into the correctness of this design by god Thoth and Seshata, followed by Akhenaton and his second wife Kiya (of whom nothing has been unveiled till now. Her light was wiped out by the venom of a demonic earlier wife, whose beauty is worshiped till now. Very few know that Nefertiti's beauty was artificially created into prominence by her, herself, through superimposition of herself on the real beauty of the other goddess (Kiya) whose every footprint upon earth was meticulously erased, by none other than Nefertiti so none may ever know of her, more on my website : http://www.sangeetahanda.net/book4.html) . The Blueprint of earth made it very easy for such events to occur and so flourished the darker energies. Hence, once the duality had kicked-in, which is so after every new era was birthed, the design changed or decomposed! Humans forgot where to love from, where to think from, where to express from, and how to feel! And thus confusion spread like endemic, pandemic, and epidemic, leading consequently to mis-creations that induced sufferings and diseases, decadence and immoralities, entropy and evilness!
Returning however to the original topic of marriage not being made in heaven, nor sanctified or endorsed by the heavens. Many here would insist and continue to enlist the prevalence of joy in their marriage. I would ask them subsequently: would 'joy' be increased if they simply evaporated the event of the 'legalized and spiritually vowed ritualistic ceremony' of marriage? Can they say for certain, their joy would not exist unless they were married?
Duality is reason enough!
For everything in action, there is an equivalent and opposite reaction! Happiness begets unhappiness. Marriage begets immorality! Its all a package deal on earth indeed! We all knew that when we heard the heralded call in heavens inviting souls to participate in a dead-ly experiment that was not expected to survive. We offered our souls and bravely descended onto a star program, untried afore, where laws and rules were then not made, and would be made by us. Only the sim card of memory was removed, completley. And we, the mobiles, were meant to live and alight by battery of our souls but sans all memory. And that time we thought, who needs memory, we have the battery :-)! Sure!
Wisdom, nevertheless, was ne'er forgotten! It was just buried in crevasses deep and dark where man would never think to look!
"The Truth is intuitively obvious once the mind is cleared of all debris.
The Truth arises from within, not from without.
No one else has to confirm that the Truth is true.
The Truth is beyond 'anyone else'.
The Truth is final, it is limitless, and it is absolute!"