A strange thing - some people complain that what I share is dualistic.
Saying something is easy - compared to actually living it.
If there is complaint, there is duality.
And, nothing matters.
A fact is, most people are not happy, most of the time.

It doesn't matter, in fact most people have more of a chance of
waking/expanding/evolving when they are not happy than when they are happy.
(We tend to go to sleep when we are content.)
And, we can all be living a more caring, fulfilling and fun life.

There are schools of thought that pronounce that everything is perfect as it
is. I agree - at one level that is so. And if you are not at that level, it
is possible that life can be a lot more fun.

When you meet someone who has been unreservedly total, in anything - career,
making money, sports, anything in which they have been total, there is a
certain 'crystallization' about them.
And if consciousness has been their orientation then that certain something
is much more expanded, and uplifting. Although each person in this state is
unique, there is the same 'air' about them.

I cannot recall anyone that I know who has gone totally beyond 'the self' -
behavioural addictions, stories, personality, character, and there are quite
a few who are watching this, and have allowed transformation of themselves
and their lives.

Not a comprehensive list, some I recall, in alphabetical order:
Alan, Andy, Astha/Andrea, Ava, Clare F, Clare S, Clive, David, Devesh,
Elise, Eva/Kyala, Devon, Dov, Ken, Kira, Kristine, Joel, Johannes, Linda,
Louise B, Louise L, Manuela, Mayra, Natalie, Rafael, Ryan, Sabine, Sandra,
Sophia, Tania, Trudie, Will, Veronika. And many more of course.

Although diverse and unique, two interesting things unite these beings.
One is that every one of them felt a 'calling' and let go of their
'conventional life' to go to something totally new.
The other uniting link is that almost (almost) all of them are now devoting
their lives something bigger than themselves.
Not about good/bad, but about fulfilment/balance/harmony.

One thing to consider when you let go of the old and allow the new -
don't hold the new. If you do, you will be as stuck in new (which is now the
old) as you were in the old. Stay unconditionally loose/open/available.
And have fun being grateful.

...each one of those people I mentioned have great adventure stories to tell
of their life changes, and how they came about.
Giving up everything, hitch-hiking around the world, going on tour without
money, and thus having to live moment to moment. And much more..

Would make a great book - each person writing a chapter of their life
adventures.

Happy adventuring...

Sending love...