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Consider this: the multiorgasmic male is not a myth. With some
amount of training, men can achieve what I refer to as ‘energy
orgasms,’ that can be reproduced many times over in the course
of one sexual encounter, rivaling the experience of a multiorgasmic
The mental shift required to access this experience involves
looking at the ejaculation-centered model of sex as a habit
rather than as the norm. There are no alternatives presented to
men at any stage of our development that challenge this habitual
behavior, and so for the majority of men this mode of operating
sexually persists throughout their entire lives. However, learning to
delay or forgo ejaculation in favor of energy orgasms introduces a
man to dimensions of his sexuality that go unexplored in this limited
To understand how energy orgasms are possible we have to talk about
what we mean by the term ‘sexual energy.’ Most men would say that
sexual energy is what they feel when they get a hard-on, or the thrill
that results when you lock eyes with a woman across the room, the
‘stirring in the loins’ that signals sexual arousal.
For the purposes of cultivating energy orgasms, sexual energy is best
described as an impulse or sensation that directly precedes erection, but
for most men does not register as a separate experience from sexual arousal.
This is because the sensation elicits an instantaneous command from
the male mind that something has to be done about this impulse.
It may be immediately filtered into a sexual fantasy, or, if the context
allows and an erection results, then ejaculation either in the context of
masturbation or sex must necessarily follow. A third and largely ignored
option is to train that initial impulse to follow a new and exciting pathway.
An energy orgasm feels like a pleasurable electric jolt or pulsating energy
stream of variable intensity that courses up the spine and disperses throughout
the entire body. It is the result of training the impulse that precedes erection
and ejaculation to reverse its direction and flow upward rather than outward.
Redirecting the flow of energy is essentially a two-fold strategy: simple
exercises involving breath control and muscular contraction; and mental
focus to guide the energy flow to specific areas. The exercises are invaluable
in that they create an awareness of sexual energy as an independent
phenomenon from erection and ejaculation, and reinvigorate dormant
energy channels that distribute the sensations of sexual arousal throughout
the entire body. An obvious comparison would be digging channels from
a static body of water to supply flow to a greater area. The result is an
extended full-body orgasm, rather than the typical genital-centered
experience of ejaculation.
Why would a man want to achieve this capability? Benefits include:
1) Increase libido without pharmaceuticals. The fallacy of libido and potency
dwindling with age is rampant in our culture. Increasing number of men are
turning to pharmaceuticals as the only solution to this perceived problem.
Learning the energy orgasm techniques restore a man’s natural capabilities
for sexual arousal and erection.
2) Resolve post-ejaculation depression and exhaustion. This is a common,
yet seldom-discussed phenomenon. Redistributing sexual energy throughout
the entire body limits the feeling of depletion commonly experienced after
3) Control ejaculation and prolong sexual excitement. Rather than having
ejaculation be an unpredictable product of urgency, there is a choice of whether to
ejaculate at all and if so, to do it when you want to. Delaying
ejaculation intensifies energy orgasms which in turn intensifies the eventual
4) Redirect and transform distracting sexual urges. It is not very empowering
to be led around by one’s penis, yet it is the condition of most men. Energy
orgasm techniques enable men to manage strong impulses while enjoying the
intensity of a sexually-charged environment
5) Deepen intimacy. Energy orgasms occur in waves that mirror a woman’s
sexual rhythm. This synchronicity in timing increases the likelihood of simultaneous
climaxing while enhancing intimacy.
6) Expand your range and capacity for sensual pleasure. When sexual energy
is redirected, it is redistributed throughout the body and stimulates dormant
7) Improve prostate health. Some of the exercises involve the
rhythmic contraction and relaxation of the pubococcygeus (PC) muscle,
which naturally massages the prostate and increases blood flow to the area.
James Rolwing, DC, offers Energy Orgasm workshops that instruct men in the
techniques described above.
Energy Orgasm Weekend Seminars
For men, the greatest barrier to satisfying sex and sexual intimacy is our focus on ejaculation as the only possibility of experiencing sexual pleasure. Most men wrongly assume that they are incapable of an extended orgasm that rivals that of a woman. This usually translates into a man’s experience of sex as a stress-filled management of his eventual ejaculation.
To compound matters, men are being sold the story of impaired male sexuality exemplified by television commercials showing men resolving erectile dysfunction with the wonder drug that is going to “cure” impotence. And, we are now being told that if men live long enough, they are destined to experience prostate problems, if not prostate cancer.
Men have access to a dormant but powerful source of energy that has habitually received only limited expression. Energy Orgasm is about discovering this missing element in men’s sexuality. Through simple and powerful techniques the potential for a new experience of male sexuality arises while old, limiting habits of sexual behavior and beliefs are dissolved. Through the redirection of sexual energy, participants may experience the opening of long-dormant channels, transforming the energy of ejaculation.
Energy Orgasm weekend seminars offer men the opportunity to learn these techniques and cultivate a broader experience of male sexuality.
Exploration of male sexuality to uncover hidden and unconscious beliefs and patterns that hinder and sabotage sexual fulfillment. This gives us a context in which to understand our current situation both individually and collectively. Participants should bear in mind that this is a rare opportunity to approach subjects that are seldom addressed in our culture, either publicly or in private. All discussions are kept in strict confidence, both by the facilitator and the participants. Participants are introduced to basic techniques of directing sexual energy.
Participants will give feedback on any impressions and observations from practicing basic techniques, with a Question & Answer session for clarifications. Presentation of advanced techniques involving more intense stimulation that eventually, with practice, culminate in male ‘energy orgasms’.
James Rolwing, DC, is a practitioner of chiropractic and energy work with over 10 years’ experience. His background includes over 20 years in sexual energy work, and training in kundalini yoga, taoist yoga, hatha yoga, reiki, magnetic therapy, and Toltec practices. He currently lives on the Big Island of Hawaii.
ENERGY ORGASM: ACHIEVING THE FULL POTENTIAL OF MALE SEXUALITY
October 9th and 10th, 9:00am -5:00 pm
Facilitator: James Rolwing, DC
A workshop for men to learn simple yet powerful techniques to:
- Control ejaculation and prolong sexual excitement
‑ Cultivate “energy orgasms” (not the same as ejaculation)
‑ Offset the effects of fatigue and depression that sometimes follow ejaculation.
‑ Redirect and transform distracting sexual impulses
‑ Enhance a woman’s pleasure and deepen intimacy
‑ Expand your range and capacity for sensual pleasure
‑ Improve prostate health
‑ Release emotional and mental patterns that inhibit and limit sexual enjoyment and expression
Southern part of Big Island of Hawaii (details are emailed separately to registered participants only)
$350 for the weekend seminar. $50 deposit is required at time of registration.
Phone ‑ 808‑990‑6491
Limited space available, early registration is recommended.
You must be at least 18 years of age to register.